Went to counseling today. All in all things went pretty good. Finally got a lot of things off of my chest. Counselor thinks that I have some anger and resentment towards my wife for trying to abandon the marriage after staying with her and trying to help her after the assualt. But he also said that I need to let go of the fear of getting divorced. I can keep working to save the marriage but ultimately I have no control over what she does. He made several of the same points that many of you have made. I actually feel a little better after talking to him. I think that I might continue to go.
Me-47 WAW-42 D-16 S-14 M-22 yrs T-19 yrs ILYBNILWY-3 years ago. Full Story and original posts: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...066#Post1781066