Well, i am trying to focus on new job. Lots of responsibility....it's a good challenge and good opportunity. Going out for wings and watch a game with lawyer pal of mine tonight. He and his wife and kids are close to our family....a little awkward for all. He is not in family law but helps me with little things. Their kids are best friends of ours. Not much else. Need to though but so busy. Stressed about upcoming meeting. Either they agree to 50/50 or we go to court. It is that simple. My L is insisting on spending time with W and her L and me out of the room for a bit to see if he can try to see if reconciling is at all possible and find out why her anger is so strong. I think he genuinely feels this has gotten stupid and not in anyone's best interest. I told him she will reject it especially if pressured but says he has seen the oddest turn arounds or at least get things amicable. Says it is ethical to at least try. Says her letters of denying current having OM are odd and has never seen anyone do that during litigation. Her L says she is offended. He wants to calm the anger but W's L seems to want to instigate.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.