The other thing I found strange was that my xh wanted to tell me about his life, and plans, even his finances. I was the one who didn't feel inclined to share. Not because I was consciously with-holding anything, but because I didn't feel that our lives had anything in common any more. It was the exact opposite of when he left -
Fwiw I suspect he will contact me again in in about 6 weeks. Just a thought.