It's good that you can see that H being decent - is just that. Detaching will allow you to continue to build that confidence needed to treat the both of you with respect.
I think because of OUR pain, we tend to forget how much emotions a WAS is feeling. We don't have to agree with them, but to deny that they have them is silly.
I think part of GALing and Detaching is just giving the WAS that space to start dealing with them.
And that's when positive steps happen... even if it is towards co-parenting.
Keep you heart guarded, but keep it up!
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
