Back is a little better, thanks so much for checking on me!!
Haven't looked into alanon as of yet. Have contacted a friend who gets counseling from a pastor, may check that route first.
Not sure what to make of H's letter.
I was really floored by it because for H its such a huge concession. But then there's the issue of do I even believe the letter...
It must mean something to H though because he has withdrawn from me since. No more requests/demands to snuggle which makes me feel he believes he sacrificed something.
I did thank him for the letter. Other than that have just been giving him his "space".
And trying to figure out how I can swing a gym membership. I'd really like to start working out again. I figure it would serve the dual purpose of getting me healthier, and keeping me busy so less time around H.
Watching and waiting to see what's next ~ J
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
