KG- He is now going to therapy. He is the one who actually said that when things are hard, he gets someone to fall in love with him. He hates every minute, almost killed himself the fist time he cheated. He never cheated on me until we got married. Yeah. When I say that above everything else, I want to to be healed, I mean it. The guy had a HORRIBLE childhood. Bad. Once he was put on lexapro he stopped cheating (4 years). Then last december we had a situation happen where he lied to me about confronting a friend of mine for firting with him. She finally told me, and I had a difficult time getting over the fact that he lied to me for 5 months and it had been causing problems between us and me & my friend. So around March of 2012, I pulled away emotionally, it was slow. And within 3 months, he started the affair. This one he fell for. I don't know why he ever thought it couldn't happen, but IC is working with him on his issues.
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
