Marry, Divorce, Reconcile - a path to reclaim a M

[JJAC2005]

I thought I might try to start a new thread and see if we might get some more input on the unique situation of coming to the DB site already divorced.
I would like to see some more comments on how/what people used from the list of strategies Michelle outlines to benefit you and your own situation.

Also, is there anything specific anyone can point out that Michelle has directly addressed for those that are already divorced, but still have hope?

[KarenR]

Hi, thanks for this post. Michele says that about 15% of couples that get divorced remarry each other. Each couple's situation is unique and our DB coaches are experts in helping you get clarity on the best way to go forward, if your goal is to reconcile. I would be happy to refer you to the best coach for your situation. Take care.

[JJAC2005]

Thank you for that reply K....I have been speaking with one of the DB coaches already, and felt it helped to get a better grasp on how best to proceed in my situation. I would highly recomend that as well....

Here is an example of what I hoped for on this thread...…

I feel that probably the most important things I’ve discovered here thru reading others various situation and seeing the words posted in response to my own threads;
Patience….Patience….Patience……and then finally, some more Patience!
It helps immensely to pay attention to what triggers you to ignore giving any of your situations “Patience” to react in a truly effective manners.

GAL…..yes, Getting A Life…..it makes sense, but you wont realize just how significant it is to your situation until you have been practicing it a few months.

180’s….what ever your situation…..look hard into this one! Find out your own patterns, bad habits, and annoyances to your spouse….and start doing some 180’s for yourself!

“Believe nothing of what you hear and only half of what you see”…..this will take on a much deeper appreciation for the need to let actions speak for themselves as time unfolds in your situation.

Read the books DR/DB, learn what you can about as much as you can….and take your time. You didn’t get here over night, and realize there isn’t any magic fix to speed up the process….it all happens in Gods time, not ours.

But my summation would have to say that as we learn, grow, and practice the changes that are making us into the types of individuals that only a fool would leave….We are insuring that no matter what happens in the future we will be just fine!