you sound like you are in a good place subguy....a calm place. I agree that this is about choice, how we choose to live regardless of the external environment.
Hope the tax issue doesn't set you too far back with the motorcycle! :-)
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home