Not confused anymore...just anxious and emotional

[BRNR]

I just read the last couple of pages of your thread and wanted to tell you that You did the right thing in setting a boundary around the use of he MLCphone in your house. Very well handled and congratulations.

GWN - Thank you for the compliments regarding this matter. It was the right thing to do for me, although it has turned my H into a bitter little boy at the moment...seems he hasn't let it go, and now is spewing some agression. Hopefully he simmers down in a few days...

Snodderly gives great advice...you are fortunate, as I have been, to have her attention.

I concur

It's a long road. Take the high one. Be gracious in your words and behaviors, and as Snodderly said keep moving forward while you practice patience. To be truthful, many of the lessons and the growth I've experienced in the past 18+ months I wouldn't trade for the world.

I am trying to take the long high road...honestly, the small group of people close to me don't know why I am doing so. I know the road is long, and there will be setbacks, which I feel this (MLC phone) has become, but in the end, wouldn't being a gracious and strong woman who took the high road be what a husband would want?

Those thoughts somewhat keep me going...besides it is a cleaner way home...he is already creating enough havoc, I don't need to either.

Thanks again GWN - Since you see the commonality, could you give me the title to your threads? I would like to see the comparisons and possible takeaways of your sitch. Maybe head off any NON-DBing behavior.

Also, 19mos is discouraging and encouraging to me at the same time. Hopefully I can have the strength to keep going that long. I have those moments everyday...give up, keep going, one more day, see what happens next week, next month etc.