"Labug, I really like that. I had so become a "WIN AT ALL COSTS" communicator. If H got some silly detail incorrect I would HAVE to comment about it. "No, it was tuesday, not wednesday."

abug-I really like that. I had so become a "WIN AT ALL COSTS" communicator. If H got some silly detail incorrect I would HAVE to comment about it. "No, it was tuesday, not wednesday."

Thank you both for that! I was that, too! It's like correcting someone and really, putting them down. With a man, it would probably be interpreted as "shaming" (from the book).

This is something I've given up now. I'm no longer the "captain of the world" whose job it is to set everybody straight!

I'm hoping that makes me a more pleasant person to be around.


M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing