And, I have to thank OW's H. Whether it's true or not, I have stopped spinning. I will allow myself one day to marinate in this:

My H seemed to take pride in the fact that this woman was so good and this was her first A. He was so special and she is so in love with him, that she went against her moral code because he is so wonderful. "I found another Tallula. I mean, you are an amazing person. She is a good person."

The liar has been lied too. :rubs hands together: Muh ah ah ah ah!!!

M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D