hmmm... my h is the opposite, he makes decisions after a very long time of thinking. Very very long time. including our separation. Which makes it hard to accept, because he took the time to come to the conclusion and that made him more determined. I wish it had been a "rushed decision" one that he might regret.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
