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[Tallula]

blake-I think that letting the OM's W know what great. It is what I would suggest to do. But now, 4 months after I know...all this would do would piss off H and OW and add drama.

However...he just messaged me a little more. And I answered. DANG IT!! See, he is newly sober, hense how H & OW met in ala-non. He has some mutual friends of ours now, and I had wished him well on being sober in my first message since i saw our mutual friends. Anywho, he said he completely understood why I didn't want him to contact me more because...ding ding...OW stepped out on him 3-4 years ago. H, as we know has done this before. When I first found out and was going OFF about OW and how can a mother sleep with a man all while watching his wife post happy family pics on FB, he said "This is her first A!! She feels terrible!" Yeah, these 2 deserve each other if they do stay together. She sold H a sob story about her H cheating on her.

Of course he could be lying to me, but he really seemed to come from a place of complete understanding and said he totally understood that him contacting me brought up stuff about OW, cause he knows all too well. He said if he sees me in a meeting, he will steer clear of me, because he doesn't wish that mind game on his worst enemy.

So what do I do with this info...write it here. Vent here. Do nothing. Never tell H he contacted me. Never tell him what a slimey chick she is. And if they do end up together, maybe they were made for each other.

Labug-I really like that. I had so become a "WIN AT ALL COSTS" communicator. If H got some silly detail incorrect I would HAVE to comment about it. "No, it was tuesday, not wednesday."