OMG!! OW's husband/ex husband just FB friend requested me. I about fell out of my chair when I realized who he was. I was like "who is? Who is...holy (insert many many curse words)
I never sent or received a FB request, but, when I suspected my W of an A, I gathered the evidence I felt I needed. Then I took that evidence and went to see OM's W. She had been doing the same since she also suspected something was going on.
Originally Posted By: Tallula
Yeah. I need to really work through my feelings on her. She is just a sick selfish person. I need to view her in the same way I see my H.
Sick & selfish? Yeah, I'd agree with that. In my case, OM told his W that he and I were good friends and had no problems between us - nothing could have been further from the truth. I didn't trust or like him, neither did the kids. W thought we was a 'nice guy' who, we just misunderstood.
Turns out, not only was OM on his sixth M, his then current W was a PA during his previous M. And I'm aware of four other women that he was sleeping with during this same time period.
I can't even begin to describe the anger I had during this time - if it wasn't for my kids, I'd probably be in jail right now.
I'm not bragging about my actions - anyone who thinks the actions I took are correct, well, that's for them to think. On the contrary, it was real easy for my W to cry foul and accuse me of not trusting her and trying to control her. We didn't speak for almost two weeks after - so it wasn't really worth it, except for the fact I KNOW his life was just as miserable. Even that didn't make it worth it...
Tallula, I do admire your strength you have shown by NOT getting involved in the same activities I did.
- if it wasn't for my kids, I'd probably be in jail right now. 
