25 I just have one comment that I really would like to clarify before I start to lose your support again. I need your insight if I can be successful in fixing my own issues.

You say you may have an issue with my credibility. I just wanted to plead to you to pls give me a little room and cut me a little slack. You know how confusing it is to concile what your WAWs re written version of your mariage with what you yourself remember. Add to this the effect of the vets on the forum challenging what you believe where the issues and you have a huge mess on your hands! Did we make love once a week? Was I twice? Did I see it was twice when she thinks it was once? Who is right? Did my recollection change because I have bought into my wifes version of the story? I dont know.

But what I do know, and I hope you agree, any inconsistencies are not on purpose, and ultimately they are minor details that dont affect our plan of how to kove forward. The bottom line is what we all know about my sitch. However number of timez it was, it was not enough and likely not passionate enough fo wife. I think the exact little details are not important unless we are trying to add lieing to my list of negative traits ; )

25. Apprecaite your help! Totally agree on the MIL cmparing to her experience etc.. those are awesome points.

Be back later today to read your responses and plan of how to purge this fatherly behavior I have.

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017