how much is too much time and distance?

[any chance?]

Moving forward one day at a time on this end. Went to a concert last night and had a very good time.

I am trying to be patient and give her the time and space she needs. That is sometimes difficult when we are living together, but I am not sure that kicking her out right now is the right idea - while there is wisdom in her getting her own place, I am not sure if that would help or hurt w.r.t. depression. I do know that I cannot control that, and I am letting her make the decision. It is my impression that we would spend just about as much time together as we do now.

The big question is whether I am going to be an H or just a friend. Not sure she knows.

NTX: not sure of the details with OM, but understand she was ending it when she decided to take her job back and he was none too happy and told her to get lost. I studiously avoid asking about such things. Not my business and it can only hurt me.

Everytime I get the feeling that this has to end soon, I need to look back and realize what a long road is has been and how far I and we have come......

Need to GAL hard core......