I agree totally but he does not see it that way. He believes that Ryan's insurance covers everything and it is NOT my problem. (it doesn't). He said when he left "The kids will be fine because they have you and you always take great care of them". He did not want any responsibility, just "on demand visits" with his 3 kids - 2, who can speak for themselves (and don't see him muh) and 1, who can't.
He has huge personal problems and can't see past himself. I get that and am so glad he is with her and not me. But to be criticized when I know I'm doing a great job is so annoying.
