WOW 2, This has really given me something to think about. Since I read your post this morning, I've been going over and over what you had to say.
You are pretty much spot-on.
The idea of striving for serenity in what's left of my R with stbx, as well as in my life more generally, really appeals to me.
I've had enough drama - often of my own making, as you rightly point out (I think I have had a tendency to catastophise and panic as a first response).
I'm ready for serenity. And for shutting up (too much stream-of-conciousness gabbing in the past), being more reflective and less self-focused. Taking time to breathe and think before I react. Catching myself before I rush to judgement on almost everything.
Although, my mind immediately went to "I am the serenist!" (Do you read The Onion?)- I need to curb my competitive spirit....
Again, my friend, thank you so much for the insight and support that your sending me. You have helped me tremendously today.
