Wow Occy01 - you handled today really well, cleanly, simply, correct, sympathetically, positive. Continue with that strength -.
Glad to hear C is working out. I like his stages idea: it adds structure to our reactions and helped my understanding (on one BD I broke down in a shock reaction, am now somewhere in or maybe after grieving).
Will see if my C tomorrow has good recommendation.
Lycka till -
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.