You did the right thing and took the high road. Good for you!
I understand the challenges of working through your feelings re. OW. No advice here, just support, understanding and hugs.
(((((Tallula))))))
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D