Well as far as the job goes they need to interview other candidates which may be the kiss of death .. we'll see. I had a backslide this morning as wife did not come home last night like she said she would .. we had an argument .. Oddly it almost felt good after the argument. we never fought about anything when the relationship seemed to be happy.

I am conflicted in that W needed more attention from me but now I am supposed to back off ... Part of me feels like I need to show her that I love her more than anything but I don't know how at this stage.

She is home now working upstairs and I am leaving her alone.


Me-45
W-44
T-7 years
M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated)
Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)