A few quick things: the retirement account wd be split 50/50. There is no pension (contractor not fed) One yr sep is also grounds in VA; i was told by my L that adultery wd b meaningless to the court. H makes about twice what i make and has a benefits pkg; i have no benefits. I work part time; L says the court would probably base my spousal support on a fulltime extrapolation of what i earn. H resents that hes been subsidizing me in the years ive been home with the kids after school. i told L that with whats been going on the is NO way i'm going fulltime till the kids are in college; he said he wd ordinarily advise it but saw my point.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
