The major change I have seen in her at home is in her relationship with our daughters. It's almost like she wants to be their friend. I don't see her playing the role of parent as much as she used to. That has me concerned.
She will say she's not in MLC, but I'm not convinced.
Pathfinder. I see similar changes with my wife vis-a-vis our 3 daughters. She has become more of the disciplinarian, and also she puts herself and her needs ahead of them. The funny thing is that except for about 6 months after each of their births, she has always worked. So it is not as if she was a stay-at-home mom. She also doesn't show them affection in the way that she used to. I have become in some ways both Mom and Dad.