Returned to H showing me an email he sent to ow telling her that their relationship needed to be platonic in word as well as deed. H told her he would be letting me read all communications, so she shouldn't be telling him about "aching" for him etc.
Said he did it to show he is at least thinking in the right direction.
I am rather taken aback. Skeptical too.
MizJ, I do not blame you. Your MLCer sure is entertaining, though. Not so much when you are dealing with him in "real life", I'll bet.
I am a little biased against the "words" these days. Mine is all talk and no action, but I do hope yours surprises you in a pleasant way. My trust radar is right off and this feels to me like a guilt ploy. I am happy to be wrong.
If he got rid of the OW, would that change anything for you? Would you maybe want to work on things or ultmately are you done?
I have always found that "wait and see" has worked for me. It helps me not to make rash decisions.
I think you should be very happy with yourself, though. I have dreamed of telling xSO that I wanted completely off this ride but I haven't yet. You are beginning to know yourself, MizJ and that is a precious gift.
And as always, we are here to support you and whatever decisions you make - or put off until you are ready to make them.
