I'm experiencing the same stuff as you. Wife will talk about long term stuff like household purchases, a summer wedding we are going to, etc. She will go clothes shopping and bring me along and ask me for my opinion on her choices.
She talks about some things with me but then doesn't include me on others. It's like she has taken up the role a totally different person. Like she's a stranger. An aquaintance. The major change I have seen in her at home is in her relationship with our daughters. It's almost like she wants to be their friend. I don't see her playing the role of parent as much as she used to. That has me concerned.
She will say she's not in MLC, but I'm not convinced.
