25 ~ I get child support and spousal for 5 years. We were married 19 years.

I got a great settlement, I am not complaining. It's just frustrating that he confuses spousal support with that means I provide the kids with all the extras. AND since he is to busy and has nothing to do with them....I need them to drive, go to camps (so I can get a break) etc.

We just kind of verbally agreed I would take on the extra expense of one kid and he would take the other...this was before he went all mean.

M:47
M:18
D16, S19
1st S 1/08-5/08
Reconciled/May 7, 2008
Left again Nov 9, 2009
I Filed: Nov 17, 2009
Final: April 14, 2010
EX walked away from kids too