Looking for a little advice and support

[cbtdad]

Here is what AS said to me a couple weeks back.

"Yes you do. So do it. And prepare to do it for the long haul. Don't do it a day or two and then reach out to her for a temperature check again, because every time you reach out to her you set the clock back to zero. If you imagine a timeline labeled "Give Her Space" at the top, the starting point is titled "The Day I Quit Pressuring Her". Every time you apply pressure your marker gets moved back to the start. So each day, picture that marker a little farther along the path, hopefully that'll help you to understand the importance of maintaining your distance and resisting applying pressure."