Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc

to ME this ^^^ is why the asking "WHY???" is so useless. The WAS often does NOT KNOW why...and or the reason "why", changes...or they lie...

but regardless, WE will probably NOT understand it anyhow.

So I say, "asking 'Why is this happening to ME?' is a waste of time.

Better to ask, 'What can I DO NOW to make myself happier & healthier?'"


So true. With me, it is rare that I feel angry. I mainly feel disappointed and confused; you are right that even if we knew, we would probably not understand.