She is being a lot more pleasant. Doesn't reply to me with one word answers as much. Actually stays in the room to talk when I go to her moms house. She's been texting me funny jokes or pictures.
I have been GALing for me! Living my life for me, not for her.
Not pursuing, not asking her questions, helping here and there, but not being at her beck and call. I don't initiate any texts or conversations unless they are about our S.
I've bought into 2 big things I've learned on this board.
25's formula for change she can believe in
AS's imaginary chalk board of starting from the beginning


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it