Sitting in the back seat!

[Occy01]

Seems like my feelings about the new C rang true...had a really good connection with him. As expected, no ground breaking stuff, C was out after background info, how I have been feeling, how I am now, how I see the future, and info on my family and Sitch. But as stated, this was expected, and I am very positive of the fact that I felt comfortable talking to him, and I liked the guy. He thinks she's moving way too fast, especially as there are children involved. He puts me in the 'grieving' stage. Already gone through 'shock' where the symptoms he described are panic,desperate attempts at reconciliation,crying, anger, hate and 'sleepless nights'. ' grieving' stage symptoms sadness, depression, negative about the future, negative about the present etc.

Seems to have hit the nail on the head. He also stated, to which I was forced to give a little chuckle, that pressuring W will only push her further away, and I realistic chance of reconciliation would only come about by being friendly, not angry or depressed and by GAL!!! His words " I mean, how attractive do you think it is to be a sad, lonely, depressed person with no interests or friends"!!!!

Started to wonder if he's read DR/DB!!

Daughter sick this week ,with fever. Better now, but now W is suffering instead. Came home from work, picked up S and went to a restaurant with him. Came home, read to him and put him to bed. Brushed the tangles out of D hair, made food for her and W. Went for a walk with dogs, read for D and put her to bed. Made tea for W and put her on the sofa in front of tv with a blanket. Took a shower. Got a pat on the back ( no hug, thanks, she's got a high fever ;-) ) and she says " thanks so much for taking care of everything this evening ", to which I replied simply " No problem. Make sure you take it easy tomorrow"

Felt really good to just get a simple thankyou....

Now i'm REALLY tired!!!