AD are you waiving your right to his retirement and if so why? I asked my W if she would waive her rights to my retirement in exchange for me waiving my right to half the house. She said no so I'm staying in the house and when I sell it I will give her her half.
If I were you I would hand him a counter proposal with your numbers. I haven't read your posts in a long time but are you doing everything through lawyers or are you going the mediation route like my W and I are?
M 44 W 43 S 23 S 15 INILWY 9/11 Divorce Mediation started 3/13 June 30 the day W is moving out