I want you to know that child support is considered to be all the support he has to give. I learned this the hard way when during talks we just agreed to split auto insurance cost, sports, camps etc. However, as that is not written in the final docs.....he doesn't have to provide anymore than the CS obligation. Lesson learned!
With two teenagers driving you can imagine that my insurance is very high. Plus the cost of senior year and teenagers. But I go without so the can have what they need.
He has not even bought a pencil for either one of our kids. AND since S has turned 18 .....nothing.
We are currently back in court of Post secondary education expenses. He makes almost $200,000 per year so I can't imagine why he won't help!
Reading that just made me ashamed to be a man. My W and I are going through divorce mediation right now and my boys are older. I cannot imagine not paying for things for them. My oldest is 23 and I still help him out financially and I probably will for the rest of my life. I don't understand why some "men" do this to their children and I use the word men loosely because to me they aren't men at all.
M 44 W 43 S 23 S 15 INILWY 9/11 Divorce Mediation started 3/13 June 30 the day W is moving out
