The first three days she was back was good. There was some intimacy in conversation as well as non-sexual touch. She had bought Victoria's secret underwear while away and showed it to me the first night. (she also bought a lot of stuff while away, since the BD she essentially spends her entire salary on herself).

No relationship talk, but we did talk about some future things like a kitchen remodel that she postponed in the depth of our problems. I also asked her for the first time if she would join me and my girls at a beach house in June with my parents and sister's family. I made these plans without consulting her, but she knew about it. She said she would get the time off from work.

So for 3 days, things are good, then on the 4th day, I actually book our flight reservations. I email her the itinerary for her records and to correct the dates since what I told her was wrong. No reply from her.

I wonder if the act of actually booking the travel makes her feel more trapped?


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