Thanks

[Grizz]

I just caught up on your sitch. You have been at this a while. You seem to know what you should be doing and it looks like you are sticking to the plan.

I know exactly what you mean about never wanting anyone else. I saw my W on the playground when she was in 7th grade. I had no idea who she was but honestly, even at that young of an age, I knew she was THE ONE. I have been with her ever since.

Detaching is really hard for me. I am still really attracted to my W and being around her makes my heart melt. I am much further along with my detachment than a few months prior however.

I am not sure what,if any, advice I can give you except that if you truly want to save your marriage then keep working on it (ie yourself). You seem to have the DB knowledge to do it. This is extremely hard to deal with. Just press on and stay the course. Good luck.