Thanks Ad for sharing your challenges as you navigate thru this D negotiation process and to 25, sandycay and everyone for the wise advice and personal experiences they are sharing as well.
I am also in the midst of such painful negotiations with my H and we have similar financial discrepancies as Ad and her H, so I am learning a lot from this.
(((((Ad)))))
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D