W was out of town on a business trip for one week of training. She hates going. On her previous trip, she left her pocketbook in the cafeteria, and it was stolen with all her stuff, including a nice wallet that a friend gave her. In discussion with my DB coach, we concluded her love language is "gift giving". When she was leaving on this trip, I gave her a gift certificate to buy a replacement wallet.
I'm a little confused on finding the balance between not pursuing and showing love through her love language. In this case, I'm going to try giving small gifts for a couple of weeks because it is a 180 for me.
