Thanks FY. It appears I'm going to catch the heat for anyone that tries to fix her. I've told everyone that's mentioned her sitch to me to just be a good friend and not to push. I, of course, no longer give advice to W. In one of the pinned threads an h says chicks love scars, to which AmyC replies keep telling yourself that. Lesson learned by this ole boy.

I'm already dreading this summer. How fair is it that I will have to see the W running around in shorts and tank tops? Going to be brutal unless I can get her to winter with me in Argentina.

M - 42
W- 37
S's - 9,6
M-12
T-14
FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011
ILYBNILWY - march '12
FIL - died jan '13
W Moved out week later