jb - good to hear from you. Its amazing how different your path is from hers. She's clearly in a downward spiral and you're on a upward path. It's ironic that she chose this situation and you are gaining the most from it.
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012