I think it's really idealistic to think that breastfeeding is a co-parenting decision. Sure, some parents have preschool planned and they agree on religion and discipline, but a lot of parents are flying by the seat of their pants and the point is - even if the dad did agree at one time long ago that breastfeeding was the best option - things change! The mom starts that commitment of feeding the baby and the dad doesn't have that same connection and of course it wouldn't matter to him if she continues. And it may matter to the mom more now than it did when she was pregnant. But what is 100% positive is that it matters to the baby. For his health and security and emotional needs.
