Rock, I dont know if others have used the words you have, but, that is not the way I see what many of us are saying.
The thing is, none of us are perfect. And this journey allows us to really take a look at ourselves. And let's face it, we do have to own the things we could have done better in.
Because if you dont, you run the risk of continuing in that pattern and that might not be good.
I believe we do the best we can with the tools and knowledge we have at the time. When we know better, we can do better.
That is in no way saying that Grr or anyone else is not good enough.
It is saying that we get to look at ourselves and change the things WE think we need changing. For us.
