Man, lady, I'm sorry. I've been away from the boards. I haven't even gone there with the thought of custody. Right now since I only work 2 days a week, I keep the kids sunday-Friday and H has them weekends. But, my D2 has the harder time than my S3. She LOVES her daddy, but it's hard on her to be away from me. I don't even want to think about what is going to happen with the newborn.
IMO, your H needs to do a whole weekend to really get the idea. I doubt my H would want 50/50. In theory I bet he does, but he hasn't had them for a whole week alone...ever.
Hey, at least he realized telling you to burn in hell was wrong... Man.
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D