I see this too, is this decision in the best interest of S at this time?
I will not be attempting to take it to court...I think that H and I have the time and ability to discuss this further without me coming across pushy, it will take time and patients and great skill on my part to convey the need for S's best interests to be taken into consideration at this time.
I am not saying no to H taking S to see his family in the future but I do feel that S is to young to do the trip without me who is his primary caretaker and is still breastfeeding at this time. H had overnight with S this past weekend and the next three days S has wanted to nurse a great deal and has had bowel changes because of the lack of breastmilk.
I do not think H realizes the impact on S if he is away from me for that length of time, I think H see that he will be able to handel him and be able to care for him. If H and I were together at this time and making the trip I would concerned with my ability and H together to handle S on that long of a plane ride. Let alone the change in the schedule for S with the trip and reunion, S has been having issues with daylight savings time change the last couple of days. This trip is one from East Coast to Montana at least two-three planes.
