There aren't just 2 people involved in this decision, there are 3 and to take a nursing toddler away from his mother for that length of time is cruel to the child. Breastfeeding is about so much more than "the milk".
Sometimes abrupt weaning is necessary but only in extreme cases. I know that some courts have ruled on the side of the child in similar cases. I'm not implying that you should take this to court but that this is not about you and your H. It's about the best interests of your S.
If your child goes he will be one unhappy little camper. Perhaps your H doesn't realize that right now.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss