BD, did you stand up for what you believed in? For yourself? Did you have good boundaries then?
Nope....the positions shifted and I struggled against it without knowing how to change the dynamic as much as she did. I've been in limbo a long time because of it.
I feel sad as I read this because it is much the story of my M. I can only speak for my part but I felt I was doing the right things in my M and my life in general but I had no boundaries. I can see that my H didn't either.
So here we are.
But I don't see myself in limbo so much as a growth phase. If I had put my life on hold to wait for him, that would be limbo.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
