Been a really busy couple of days. Got home on Sunday and had a good evening with the family. At one point W says to me, well when I move back in looks like you'll have things under control. I just laughed and said I hope so. She ended up cleaning house and doing laundry. Weird.

Monday a friend of W called to say she was praying for us, and that W tells her she isn't going to divorce me. I thanked her and told her we shouldn't be talking and just be a good friend to W. it was nice to hear but I take it for what it's worth. That evening W cooked while I did school project with youngest. It was a nice evening.

Yesterday W texted me most of the afternoon just about gossip stuff. Things were really good. Went to her dr appt and things blew up. Dr talked to her about drinking, how I was being both father and mother to S's, and her actions. She blasted me as the source. I am not. It's small town, there are no secrets and everyone knows what she's up to. I caught venom for a while and she made several threats about moving away, confronting S's with truth, making me leave home, etc.. She finally calmed down but it was not fun.

I used it as a chance to tell her that I was concerned about her drinking, but noticed that she wasn't drinking as much (she's not). Told her I had seen positive changes in her in the last few weeks and she needed to calm down. I told her that her dr is concerned about her and she needed to take it that way.

One stressful evening!

M - 42
W- 37
S's - 9,6
M-12
T-14
FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011
ILYBNILWY - march '12
FIL - died jan '13
W Moved out week later