Your wife did not break the family Bruce. You broke the family by not being there for them. By neglecting your son and your wife.
Now I'm done.
I don't believe this. Most of us on here have made some awful mistakes but every human is capable of that. There are plenty of things I wish I had done or didn't do etc.
I'm much like MWD where I don't believe divorce is an acceptable solution to marital problems (within reason of course).
The fact is, he's here, fighting for his marriage. In my mind that's something to be very proud of.
W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs 8 year old Son ILYBINILWY - Dec 12 W moved out - Jan 2013 OM - Jan 2013 I file for D - May 2013