Re the door thing: what bothers me is the closing of it, when it could be left open - the rejection that this communicates to me - at least that is how I interpret it (did catch myself snoring last night again; perhaps that is the reason?).
Working on counselor thing. Will ask my current C for a name or two here, this Friday.
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.