OW attempted to blackmail stbx in order to make him tell me about their A first time around. And when he broke it off with her (at my instigation), I can still see the capitalised text she sent him: I WILL RUIN YOUR LIFE.
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Originally Posted By: NLW
What a prize she is. But as stbx commented in a moment of clarity: "We deserve each other."
is a HUGE HUGE HUGE wake up call for you. IOW, this has NOTHING to do with how much you ruined his life but how much he likes to ruin his.
Does he enjoy drama in his life? Does he get bored easily? Does he suffer from anxiety/depression? Does he like being in EVERYBODY's kool aid?
Sounds like my H.
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017
