Alias71, I'm praying for you & your family. It's my belief that your wife is definitely having a MLC & she is also a would-be WAS. She may also have some narcissistic tendencies. The problem is that there is probably little you can say to her to alter the path she is on. Continuing to work on 180, GAL, and maybe getting into limited contact with her may be the way to go.

When she has enough time without you "there" for her, she will begin to see how different her life is going to be & maybe then she will gain the perspective she needs to realize that her decisions are going to have a horrible impact on her entire families lives. Hopefully she sees soon that the grass is not greener & she makes the effort to make your marriage work.

Best of luck!


Me: 48
EW: 40
D8, D12
Married 13 wonderful years
D in Apr-12