I'm realizing that it may take awhile in this forum for ppl to add their reconciliation after divorce stories due to the relatively light traffic here. I did several searches and found a small number of similar threads and I will be trying to add the links here.

MrBond, I wish I could understand my exes POV! I think I know her fairly well but why she decided to cheat instead of formally airing her issues About our R or seeking MC is beyond me.

My current sitch requires me to work on me & let her current relationship run its natural course. Hopefully I can enjoy the benefits of 180 & LC and with any luck, she may take a second look as her MLC goes through it's stages.


Me: 48
EW: 40
D8, D12
Married 13 wonderful years
D in Apr-12