I'm realizing that it may take awhile in this forum for ppl to add their reconciliation after divorce stories due to the relatively light traffic here. I did several searches and found a small number of similar threads and I will be trying to add the links here.
MrBond, I wish I could understand my exes POV! I think I know her fairly well but why she decided to cheat instead of formally airing her issues About our R or seeking MC is beyond me.
My current sitch requires me to work on me & let her current relationship run its natural course. Hopefully I can enjoy the benefits of 180 & LC and with any luck, she may take a second look as her MLC goes through it's stages.
Me: 48 EW: 40 D8, D12 Married 13 wonderful years D in Apr-12